Practice · 2005–now · Cloud Scale
ORM-as-database
Hide SQL until N+1 queries own your night. Good ORMs survived; "never write SQL" didn't.
ORM-heavy failed as ideology because relational thinking cannot be abstracted away forever. ORMs stuck as productivity tools when teams still read query plans. The fad was pretending the database was an implementation detail.
Case studies

Context
Split everything, then pay for the glue
Hyperscale patterns escaped the companies that needed them. Containers unified packaging; Kubernetes became the cloud OS; microservices and NoSQL were sold as defaults. Mobile-first stuck because screens changed. Cargo-cult distributed systems stuck around as invoices. The durable move was packaging and ops maturity — not rewriting every app into a mesh.
Compare with
Related
Platform · 1974–now
SQL / Relational
Declarative data that outlived every ORM fashion cycle. Postgres and friends keep winning by being boring.
Framework · 2004–now
Ruby on Rails
Convention over configuration. Taught a decade of frameworks how to ship MVPs — and how to hit scaling walls.
Framework · 2005–now
Django
Batteries-included Python web. Still the adult choice when you want an admin, auth, and ORM that behave.